ReNae SchrammThe House of Becoming

Welcome to the House of Becoming

Bring me the thing you keep circling.

Maybe it's your business, your relationship, your work, your home, or something about yourself you're trying to understand. You know there's something there. You just haven't found the key.

I notice patterns, connect what looks unrelated, ask questions that open things up, and help you see what's really going on. Then we figure out what you want to do with what we see.

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  • Clarity
  • Alignment
  • Intention
  • A More Authentic You

The next you is already in you.

ReNae Schramm, smiling in a black and white scarf

“The thing that brought you here may only be the doorway.”

ReNae Schramm · The House of Becoming

Choose a Doorway

What are you trying to understand?

You don't need the right words before you get here. Choose the doorway that feels closest, and start where the energy is already asking for your attention.

MyselfWho am I now?My WorkIs this still right for me?My BusinessWhat's next?My RelationshipsHow do I move forward?My HomeWhat feels like home now?I Can't Name ItI just know something needs to shift.

See How I Work

I notice what connects.

I listen for the repeating phrases, the contradictions, the things you minimize that might actually be your greatest gifts. I pay attention to the old stories that show up in your current decisions. I look for the business problem that might not actually be a business problem.

Then we figure out what you want to do with what we see.

  1. I see
  2. →
  3. I reflect
  4. →
  5. we understand
  6. →
  7. we experiment
  8. →
  9. you choose
  10. →
  11. you become

Some doors only open from the inside.

Not Sure Where to Start?

Start with a key.

Four small ways to drop in, get curious, and hear what's here for you right now. No sign-up, no cost, just a few honest minutes. Each one is an experience you can try the moment it catches you.

Sixty seconds

Listen

Sixty quiet seconds with the question underneath the questions.

Try it now

Close your eyes. Take one slow breath. Ask yourself: what's the thing I keep circling? Don't answer. Just let the question sit. What came up first is worth noticing.

One minute

Notice

A body check-in, because your body usually answers first.

Try it now

Think of something you said yes to recently. Where does yes live in your body: chest, gut, shoulders? Now think of something you didn't want to do. Most people can find both answers in under a minute.

One question

Ponder

One question worth sitting with today. Maybe for a few days.

Try it now

What would you do next if you trusted what you already know? Write it down. Come back in a week and see if the answer moved.

Five minutes

Map

The Body Compass, a free guide to asking your body better questions.

Download the guide

Speaking & Workshops

Bring this conversation into the room.

I speak, teach, and facilitate in different ways depending on the room: from talks and workshops to classes, guided experiences, and conversations built around the people who are there. The themes stay close to the work: becoming, identity, pattern, self-trust, business evolution, home, and the moments when what used to fit no longer does.

  • Talks & keynotes
  • Workshops
  • Guided experiences
  • Hosted conversations
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Books

Books in Becoming

There are stories taking shape here.

01In progress

Current Book Project

A reflective nonfiction journey exploring how we recognize who we are, gather what life teaches us, and become more of ourselves. A curious little bee named Juniper appears along the way.

02Taking shape

Another Story Is Buzzing...

A second book is beginning to take shape. More when it's ready.

ReNae Schramm in a black and white scarf, smilingI see you. I reflect what I see.

About ReNae

Pattern-seer. Synthesizer. Guide.

I'm a pattern-seer, synthesizer, and guide for people who are becoming more fully themselves. I see potential, connections, and patterns that aren't always easy to recognize from inside your own life, and I help you see them too.

Together, we explore how your experiences, beliefs, relationships, choices, and ways of protecting yourself have shaped who you are and how you're showing up today.

What do you want to keep? What no longer fits? Who are you becoming, and what kind of life can hold that version of you?

I blend tools and modalities rather than relying on one prescribed path: reflection, intuitive and practical tools, the Authenticity Blueprint, healing practices, experimentation, and honest conversation.

This isn't about becoming someone else. It's about knowing yourself deeply enough to make conscious choices about who you want to be.

And there's often a messy middle, where the old version no longer quite fits and the new one still feels unfamiliar. I hold space there too.

  • Roots Sioux Falls, SD
  • Now Mesa, AZ
  • Recharges at The beach
  • Weaknesses Escape rooms, learning new things
  • Office supervision A very committed cat
  • Currently Blending. Not stopping.

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House by the Numbers

A home-centered approach to buying, selling, and exploring the spaces that support who you are becoming. House by the Numbers asks what kind of home supports the life you are building. This work asks what kind of life is ready to be built.

Visit House by the Numbers

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Start a conversation.

I don't chase. Yet I'm not hard to find. If something on this page called to you, a session, a question, a room you want me in, this is where you start. A message is the beginning.

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